By Emil
I’ve always enjoyed the TV show “Cheers”. Not only the first time around, but also the re-runs. Like most successful sitcoms, it had not just one star, but quite a large cast, consisting of talented, humorous, interesting, and lovable characters. The scene was almost always the same, a Boston bar, where “everybody knows your name.” For all of Cheers’ patrons, it seemed to be a “home away from home.” A place where they could go to meet and associate with other friendly people, good-natured folks who, like themselves, were trying to escape at least a few of the pressures and problems of life in the real world.
Member of the Cheers cast were solid characters, and well thought out and crafted by the show’s writers. All were at least a bit bizarre, but believable and recognizable as types you just might rub shoulders with in any friendly neighborhood bar. There are usually at least a few Sam “Mayday” Malones around-good fellows who have never quite outgrown their athletic world. And tavern patrons who possess, and are ready and willing to share all of the answers are seldom in short supply. Quite often you can find a small group that includes members vaguely resembling a Diane Chambers, Cliff Clavin, and Dr. Frasier Crane, all fully qualified experts. At least one member of the group is sure to be armed with complete details regarding any subject that may happen to come and can explain them at great length. And there will always be a Norm Peterson around–the least successful but most popular guy in the place. With luck, you may be able to avoid a Carla Tortelli LeBec, who just can’t resist agitating and antagonizing certain people.
It is not my purpose in life to promote the use of alcohol. I have witnessed some of the sad and serious problems and damage that result from the abuse and over use of the spirits. And I’ve known quite a few cases that were less serious, yet good examples of occasions where a person and his or her family would have been much better off had that guy or gal spent less time at the pub and more evenings at home.
Overall, though, I don’t see anything wrong with the basic idea of the neighborhood bar. Some people seem to have a real need for a place to unwind. A friendly haven for relaxing and a bit of socializing. A place to meet old friends, and now and then a complete stranger. A place to discuss politics and compare notes on the local weather. To learn how hot or cold Efren’s thermometer registered yesterday. Also how hot or cold it was last year at this time. It’s nice for everyone to be able to find out how much water all of their neighbors had in their rain gauges on any given morning. A country bar is often a meeting place where farmers can talk about hog and milk prices. And to learn what each of the area grain elevators is paying for shelled corn and soybeans.
For working people and for unemployed job seekers it can be a valuable place for exchange of information regarding employment opportunities, pay scales, job conditions, etc.
What about you? Where do you like to hangout on a Friday or Saturday night? Do you have any stories to share about favorite neighborhood bars, clubs or restaurants and the cast of characters that make them special?









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15 Responses to Everybody Knows Your Name
Norm!
Here I am…it’s Saturday night, and I am hanging out at Imperfect Women again.
Ann,
Where else should we be! The drinks are inexpensive and taste great and the company is wonderful. Now if I could just get that guy on the bar stool at the end to quit throwing peanuts at me.
I’m here guys! I’d much rather be here with you guys than hanging at a *real* bar on a Saturday night. Shudder. Those days are long over…
Emil, I loved “Cheers” and I agree with you — I think the show was successful because the majority of the characters were people we could recognize from our own life.
Back in the day, I remember having a crush on “Woody.” Woody Harrelson hasn’t aged well IMO and has turned into a bit of a looney, but he was a cutie back then!
Ok, back to the article, Emil, I agree, I think in smaller towns particularly, a pub/bar can serve as a good way to bring people together and discuss topics relevant to the community. And, of course, everyone will have an opinion!
Yeah, IW is my neighborhood bar – had a couple of drinks tonight while reading the various threads!
There actually was a neighborhood bar that my parents went to when I was growing up. This being San Francisco, it was a lesbian bar, and it should go without saying (or maybe not) that neither of my parents were lesbians, but they seemed to like it fine anyway. We were allowed in a few times, mostly when the 49ers were in the Super Bowl. It was no “Cheers”, but it seemed fun to me!
I have a local pub that I frequent after work that has a reputation as a biker bar but in reality the bikers are mostly private business owners and factory workers. It is more like a neighborhood bar where almost everyone knows everyone thru business and riding. We have alot of fun with sports talk since we have Steeler, Eagle and Ravens fans are in the bunch. It is in a way a small family of friends we have had deaths, births, surgeries and weddings. They cordinate with other bars/pubs in the area for bike runs for charity and it is always fun to see 100 beautiful harleys pull up for a quick stop. Everyone knows I love to play the games and that is how I destress from work ,LOL no talks to me until I am done. I usually am there for about a hour then I go home and come to this lounge and read. One of my closest girlfriends works as the daytime bartender there so that is why I probaly stop as much as I do. Football season is the best time since both of us are Steeler fans and when we win we both wear our Steeler gear Mondays to celebrate. Even if I am having the worst day somehow by stopping there I get a laugh either thru a joke,prank or even a heated discussion over sports, politics or news.
Diane, I have seen the Harleys out for a ride and they looked like businessmen to me. How far do you ride? What charities do you raise money for?
My husband and I visited the real Cheers in Boston 2 years ago when we were on vacation and the picture in this post is one that we took. It is really a restaurant and bar and they actually have a gift shop inside also. We ate there and the food was good.
The area that I grew up in and where my parents still live does have quite a few bars for people to hang out in. The one that comes to mind is called the Dew Drop In. It is truly out in the middle of nowhere and probably 5 miles from the nearest town. It really draws the crowd and is packed most nights but especially on weekends.
Over a year ago my family came home for my mom’s birthday and we had a nice dinner. I drove my parents home because they were tired, but my sister and one of my brothers and their family members did a little bar hopping and ended up at the Dew Drop In. They said it had not changed in over 35 years. Not the cleanest place in the world but it was packed on a Saturday night and they knew almost everyone in the bar from when they grew up in the area. Quite a few high school classmates were there. They were welcomed with open arms and it was like they never left.
What a great article. When I went home for my class reunion.. there are only 3 bars left.. names have changed but the patrons remain the same.. I actually ran into people (besides my classmates) who I hadn’t seen in years.. btw… we used to frequent a bar when we were underage… they never asked for ID’s.. I have a neighborhood bar across the street from me.. once in awhile it’s fun to go there.. my neighbors are usually there, my neighbor down the street owns it.. and we always run into someone we know…. great fun! Emil is such a good writer…..”
This weekend was a weekend when all the local bike clubs and bars in the area got together. They had 500 bikers and a few trucks and drove up to Hershey Medical Center and donate over 500 toys to the Center. It was so awesome to see that many women and men bikers pulling out for such a wonderful cause. The Local and State Police were a huge help with traffic lights and closing down lanes on the exit to get everyone on thier way. Alot of the time the clubs in the area tend to take care of thier own with fundraiser for cancer treatments or sudden deaths in a family. But when it comes to children they all come together and raise money for a family in need. BTW I can’t ride any much due surgery but my heart is with riding.
That’s so nice, Diane. 500 bikers must be some sight! We were passed by about 50 a few weekends ago on the PA turnpike headed to Philadelphis.
You live near Hershey? We went there for a mini-vacation this summer. They just held the cross-country state championships there and my daughter went to cheer her friends on. Beautiful countryside!
After I thought, I realized that I met two of my best friends were met in a bar. It’s been so long, I had forgotten. One of them is godfather of my last little one. I can’t imagine my life if these two weren’t apart of it. It was a place that a bunch of us would go to watch and sing on karaoke night. It’s been years since I’ve been there. None of us go anymore. But, those are some great memories.
Diane B? Were they carding when you went back? How great that you got to run into old friends.
Diane, I enjoyed hearing about the charity run. That sounds like good times. I’m sure you miss riding. I always wanted to learn how to drive one of those but I never have.
I have to share this about my favorite hangout. It was a dreary day on Tuesday with rain and dark cloudy day. My bartender/ good friend made the comment I wanted to call off today today and tell them I have anal glaucoma:) I can’t see my ass getting out of bed this morning
Truth be told it made my day with a laugh, thats why I keep going back. I learn something new every day:)
I’m not a bar person- or a drinker and I almost never relax haha. I would love a great hang out but I don’t have one yet. Maybe once my daughter is grown?
I haven’t hung out at a bar in a long, long time, but we do have quite a few in our neighborhood and there was one that we did go to every weekend many, many years ago.
Our group of friends actually started hanging out together when we were all in our early teen years. We used to meet at a local old-fashioned ice cream parlor, and the owner was wonderful, for the price of a cherry coke he let us sit in the booths for hours and hours! We did that every weekend for years until we reached ‘legal’ age, and then we graduated to the bar next door!
And the bar owner was very good to us too, for the price of a pitcher of beer (it was only two dollars back then!), we could sit at the tables for hours and hours!
It was great to have a neighborhood place to go to!
Great story, Emil! It brought wonderful memories back to me!
Keep posting stuff like this i really like it.