Over the past eighty-plus years I have known quite a few people who today would probably be described as being “veracity challenged,” or “veracity impaired,” or something like that. Telling falsehoods is really nothing new. One of the more often repeated passages in the New Testament states: “And the truth was not in him.”
I remember an older neighbor who often used the expression, “It takes a lot of people to make up a world.” Usually he would add, “And I’m afraid quite a few of them are nothing but damned liars.“There are different kinds of liars,” he would explain, “with different levels of falsehood and for different reasons. Some are kind of creative and are innovators – entertainers, really. If they would put their stories down on paper, instead of telling them in barbershops and taverns, they would be considered short story writers or authors. Then there are the ‘Compulsive Liars.’ These windjammers seem compelled to continually tell fibs for no reason at all. Some of them can’t look at their watch and tell you the time of day without adding or subtracting an hour or two.
“At the bottom of the list we have what I consider the ‘Repulsive Liars.’ The worst and most damaging of these are the gossips who tell their lies for the sole purpose of damaging another person’s reputation. Slightly more acceptable are those whose lies are created solely for financial or political gain. In dealing with them, you’d better keep your hand on your pocketbook. I prefer these crooked scoundrels to the gossips, though. Remember, Shakespeare said: ‘He who steals my purse steals trash, but he who steals my good name takes from me everything I have.’”
Some liars take great pride in their accomplishments:
Although I lack a real profession,
There are ways of getting by.
I can hide my lack of knowledge
With a crafty, well-told lie.
I look on this “fibbing skill” as
A welcome God-given gift.
A few well-told lies often give
Listener’s spirits a lift.
I use my imagination –.
Creativity’s my game –
If my lies are enjoyed, I feel
Not one twinge of guilt or shame.
Here is how I build my stories:
I learned many years ago
To start with a simple fact, then
Make up the rest as you go.
In liar’s contests, I always
Think fast and get in my licks
It helps to pretend I’m involved
In national politics.
I don’t just rest on my laurels
Even when telling white lies.
I do my creative best, and
Let my mind soar to the skies
No one’s interested in stories
That are moss-covered and old.
I challenge myself, making each
Lie the best I’ve ever told.
After my long years of fibbing,
I have come to realize
Lots of folks really like having
The wool pulled over their eyes.
Oh, I’ll admit a few tend to
Wise up later, and get sore,
But soon forget and forgive, then
They come back looking for more.
If an occasional listener
Questions my veracity,
I admit I’m a liar and as
Proud of that as I can be.
Most folks have a favorite hobby
That requires some special skill.
Mine is fabricating fables,
As I’m sure I always will
Until that bright day when Heaven’s
Great Golden Book includes me.
Saints will read my name, followed by:
“Prevaricator, Ph.D.”
How about you, do you know someone who loves to embellish when they tell a story? Have you been hurt by someone who has perfected the art of gossiping? Share your thoughts.









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5 Responses to FIBS AND FABRICATIONS
My husband is an embellisher for sure. But in a friendly, good kind of way and only for entertainment purposes. He is a good story teller. I have never been one to re-tell something that has happened in an interesting way. My stories are very dry and non funny and I forget things or tell too many small details.
I have told some little white lies in the past. But only because I felt it was necessary. Like calling in sick to work when I am not really sick . Actually as I get older this is no longer an issue with me and I am just honest and say ” I am going to Vegas for the weekend.” Most of the while lies or fibs I have told it is because I don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings. Like, ” Sorry , I can’t go to your party Saturday night but we already have plans.”
As for gossip, I am not proud of it but I have participated in it. I think that is human nature and sometimes hard to avoid. I am not the kind of person though, that spreads malicious gossip. I mostly enjoy hearing gossip, not necessarily repeating it but I have been guilty of that in the past also.
Men say they are not guilty of gossip, but that just is not true. My husband loves coming home and telling me things that go on in the office.
I have a pretty thick skin and I usually don’t let gossip about myself bother me. I think that also comes somewhat with getting older and wiser and being secure with yourself.
I don’t really know anyone that flat out lies just to be vicious- not in real life anyway. I know a few embellishers, and I know a few people who have a terribly skewed outlook on reality- somehow always skewed in their favor of course.
I lie to keep from hurting someone’s feelings too- I think we all do that. Have you seen the Ricky Gervais movie where no one lies and its all truth all the time? (The Invention of Lying) Not pretty.
I had one bad work experience where a co worker- who was in her 70′s and more than old enough to know better told a flat out lie about me. She was acting as interim supervisor while my boss was away on vacation. She specifically instructed me to do something that I was uncomfortable with- insisting that it was policy. Then when my boss returned she insisted she had told me not to and that I had defied her wishes. My boss was unahppy with me and obviously believed the LYING old hag. She kept saying how surprised she was and how out of character it was for me- no kidding. I was so hurt that my supervisor believed this woman (though how many grandmas tell viscious lies?) I quit. I refused to work for someone who A- couldn’t see me for who I really was and B- would think I was lying to her. Actually I’m still a little pissed off about it because I’m sure she still believes I was the guilty party.
“Veracity impaired” – I love that. Sound very PC!
I admire people who know just the right way to embellish a story to make it entertaining. Like Pam, storytelling doesn’t come naturally to me.
I am thankful that I don’t have to work in a workplace with liars. I would quit too. Life is too short to put up with b.s.
I do think there is one more category – teenagers.
Oh Samantha, give me the old hag’s name and I’ll write her a note to put her in her place! I hate injustice like that.
Gossip is a delicious and deadly poison.
I have been telling a very funny story for years about my sister and her husband releasing a turtle at a nearby fish hatchery. My brother-in-law heard me tell it and said he had no idea where I had heard the version I was telling because it was so far from the truth. My version was much better.
Comedy has always been based on embellishment and surprise. I have always been blamed for being too blunt at work and it has helped me as well as hurt me. Women always ask questions that invite lying. You know what the questions are. So heaven help us men if we don’t lie a little.