Comments on: Lost, Stuck and Confused

By: Theresa

Theresa — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 17:49:58 +0000

But, the only way I can get myself back on track, is by DOING. What I mean by that is instead of me just sitting here, wallowing about what if’s, I’m going to create opportunities for myself. Success doesn’t come when you just wait for things to happen to you.

Kari, your first action was writing your post. That was a brave thing to do. I hope you write more in the future because that would mean you are experiencing more wonderful scenarios and happenings in your life.

You are also brave in realizing that you need to do something about creating opportunites. then, you must DO them. Get out of your comfort zone. That’s when you’re challenged the most. That’s when you will feel alive. Action is a must. You can say and write about something many times over, but if you do not act on your ideas, then your time is wasted and you won’t get results or at least something more interesting.

My good friend and mentor told me in the early years of my career….if you keep doing the same old same old, you’re not going to get anything. You need to create and ACT on your ideas and thoughts. You must go with your gut. Personally, I believe that when one “goes with their gut” that it is God leading you on your path. That’s just my beliefs, not trying to push religion or anything.

I wish the best for you Kari. You are well on your way to discovering what you want in life. Don’t stop or give in.

By: Mary

Mary — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 10:46:14 +0000

I think that life is full of challenges. If one becomes totally satisfied!! Then what is left? At 63 I am still not satisfied with my life. I want to do more, and learn more.
I am happy with my life, but not satisfied. I hope I continue to challange myself!!

By: I'd rather poke my eye out...

I'd rather poke my eye out... — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 14:54:55 +0000

Missy- I’m also a military wife, 28 & a proud mommy to two little ones! I completely understand the career/child care struggles~ I’m in the same boat as you right now.
Godspeed!

By: Missy

Missy — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 14:22:18 +0000

Hi Kari-
I also am 28. I went to college, found a job I loved and met the man of my dreams… it was perfect, but he was military- so when he came back stateside, I had to decide my career or him. I chose him, and we have been married 6 years and have a beautiful girl and boy (little did I know when I quit my job I was pregnant)! I know if I hadn’t quit my job I probably would only have my daughter…not sure where my marriage would be, etc. I have traveled a little, but I have not done everything I would like to yet, but I know I still have time.

I am happy being a mom and a military wife, but I am now trying to get my career back on track and it’s a challenge, especially when your family is not around to help and you need daycare at all hours of the day- not just during the day. I think what would have happened if things were different, but I cannot take back the joys of my children and a strong, partner who is there for me when I need him. Now I am 28 and trying to decide to go back to school or move closer to family and pursue the career of my dreams.

By: Kari

Kari — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 20:24:21 +0000

HI Imperfect Women!

Thank you all so much who commented or read my post “Lost, Stuck and Confused.” I have to admit, I was a little hesitant about putting this post out to the world. But, after reading everyone’s comments, it reassures me that I am not at all alone and that everyone has gone through this at one point or another. I definitely plan on blogging some more for this amazing website so stay tuned…..

Sincerely,
Kari