By Tiffany Tweedie

Opened January 15, 2010 | Run time: 2 hr. 15 min.
PG-13 for mature thematic material involving disturbing violent content and images, and some language

I should preface all this by saying I did not read the book, though I was very much aware of it. In fact, I deliberately did not read this book. A book about a child being kidnapped, molested and murdered, hum…. no thanks! I have a vivid enough imagination without literary help, thanks anyway!

So I’m more surprised than anyone that I sort of wanted to see this movie. At all. When I first heard about it, I mentally crossed it right off my coming attractions list. If I didn’t want to read about it, I sure as heck didn’t want to SEE IT, in living techno-color, larger than life. Yeah, my therapist could put in a pool/spa combo off THAT!

And then I saw the first trailers. And I was intrigued. It wasn’t what I pictured. Bright, vivid, fantasy, and told from the girl’s perspective. And then I saw the cast list: Mark Walker, Rachel Weisz, Susan Sarandon, and the clincher… Stanley Tucci. I adore Stanley. He totally sealed the deal. I can’t think of a more brilliant actor that I fully respect and think would make even a dog food commercial Oscar-worthy AND enjoyable to watch! I uncrossed it off, and put it at the top of my must-see list.

For the handful of people not aware of the plot, Fandango sums it up as: “The Lovely Bones centers on a young girl who has been murdered and watches over her family – and her killer – from heaven. She must weigh her desire for vengeance against her desire for her family to heal.” (read the full synopsis HERE)

As for the movie itself, I expected it to be sadder! I KNOW, right?! There were parts where I teared up, mostly when the parents are dealing with their grief. I mean, as a parent, its impossible NOT to think about the What Ifs. But especially back in the 70s (she is murdered in 1973, note the David Cassidy posters!) people just really didn’t think stuff like this happened. I remember riding my bike everywhere, until dark or later. Hiking in the fields behind the high school. Running through the neighborhoods or the park. My parents had no idea specifically where I was. Just be home by dinner. And I was elementary school age. Susie (our main character) is 14. There was a freedom and innocence that was lost in the 80′s and 90′s. Now most parents wouldn’t consider letting their kids walk to school alone, even a couple of blocks. That’s just the world we live in now. But it wasn’t always that way. This movie reminds us of that. And why it changed.

Saoirse Ronan plays Susie. And she is amazing. Truly. She does just a fantastic job. I think her performance is flawless. We’re just seeing the first from her. Mark and Rachel are so sympathetic as her desperate and bereaved parents. Their scenes are the toughest to watch.

Susan Sarandon is our comic relief. Because in a movie about child rape and murder, there has GOT to be some kind of comic relief or it’ll just kill you. She does a wonderful job as Rachel’s mom. My one complaint is that she should have had more scenes!!

Mr. Tucci. He should win an Oscar for this (he should win an Oscar for every movie he does.) But oh, I can’t even imagine how HARD this role must have been for him. No one wants to be the child killer. I read that he only agreed to take the role if they would NOT show him molesting her. He said he just couldn’t do that. I don’t blame him! Mr. Tucci, you are awesome! *bowing down in the I’m not worthy pose*

My overall review: I don’t know how to recommend this one. It’s good, sure. A must see? I don’t think so. Uplifting and inspiring – definitely not. It will make you even more paranoid about keeping you’re kids literally tethered to you! It’ll be just as good on DVD. And Extraordinary Measures opens on Friday – which you absolutely should NOT miss!!

The Lovely Bones movie website.

You can learn more about Tiffany Tweedie here.

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