Written by Honeyhush
This first article should be entitled “Why I Entered the Dork Forest“. I am one of those Civil War re-enactors. My husband had moved me back home to KY, from FL and we were bored. In FL, we had been very active. We were always going to the beach, theme parks, flea markets or out w/ friends. We got to KY and were living out in the country and couldn’t find much to do. We both love history, especially the Civil War era so my husband started looking online for local re-enacting groups. I thought the man had lost his mind! Reading about the Civil War is one thing, but actually pretending and playing dress up is quite another. I thought he probably wouldn’t find a group close to us or he would forget about it. Surely, the man wasn’t serious.
He was serious. He found the 5th Kentucky Infantry CSA Company E in the next town over. He e-mailed the group and got an immediate response from Terry Kidd, who invited us to a meeting that next Tuesday. I was not going to a meeting. No way! I told Michael he could go check them out & let me know how it was, but I was not going to a meeting of Civil War re-enactors. Those people had to be a bunch of crazy dorks. As a matter of fact the very night Michael was at this meeting I was watching Last Comic Standing. The comedian said never to marry a war re-enactor because then you have entered the dork forest. Not only have I entered the DorkForest, I don’t ever want to leave it!
The very next Saturday there was a re-enactment not too far from home. We drove over for the day. Michael had put together a great uniform, for himself. I had spoken to Terry’s wife Missy and she had said to bring a white shirt & black shoes. Within 5 minutes, that woman had me in her tent and in a hoop skirt. We spent the day at their camp and Michael got to fall in and fight with company, during the re-enactment. They loaned me clothes. They loaned Michael a musket. They fed us. They talked about how much fun they had camping and I told them I didn’t think we would ever be camping. I sat on a quilt and watched the battle and cried. Taps was played and I cried. I immediately loved these people and had a blast.
We went back the next day, for Sunday’s battle. We’ve been camping ever since we met those crazy Civil War re-enactors. Those people who are some of the best people I have ever met. They are more than friends. They are my family now. Re-enacting has changed my life in many ways. It’s a great hobby for my husband and I to enjoy together and I hope to share it with y’all through more articles so you can see just how fun it can be.
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19 Responses to WHY CAN’T I HUSH ABOUT RE-ENACTING?
I have watched several of these reenactments in a small town near where my parents live. I have always been fascinated by it. I love the civil war period also. My husband visited Gettysburg, PA years ago and tried to see as many historical sites that we could.
I also was probably one of the few people that I know that actually enjoyed the movie Cold Mountain.
When you go to these reenactments, do you get to take your computer?
We went to Gettysberg last year. It was the 145th anniversary. My husband and the other men in Company E re-enacted Pickett's Charge. It was very powerful. To see all those men fall and know that was just a small percentage of the men who actually died 145 years ago.
I have to live in a tent and the most modern convenience I have is the port a potty. I do cheat a little & have an air mattress in my tent that I hide w/ quilts, but other than that. we're fairly primitive. There is no Internet anywhere we go. We did stay in a hotel for the 1st 2 events this year. We were called Motel Militia or Ramada Rangers LOL! However, even though I tried to sneak my computer I got caught by one of my friends and had to leave it @ home.
When we go to a re-enactment, I do NOT get to take my computer.
Pam!!! LOL. I know that is exactly how I am about any activity that involves the outdoors! Where are my creature comforts???
Honeyhush, You have me very interested. I love love love history. I love the idea of really living it. I am a big fan of Sarah Vowell's and love to read about visiting historic sites.
Keep writing, please!
The movie, Cold Mountain, was horrible because they cast a middle-aged woman in a role meant for a 19-year-old. The book, Cold Mountain, was lovely.
We have a Civil War reenactment weekend coming up here in PA in a local town. Will you be there, HoneyHush?
My brother (we're from PA) married a woman from Georgia. Her family history is well-preserved. She shared a diary from the Civil War written by relative who was at Gettysburg (well, all over.) His GA group captured a drum from a PA regiment during the Civil War and it sits in a museum in Georgia now that had once been home in her family. We teased my brother when he first met her family to steal that PA drum back from those rebs and bring it home.
It sounds like you LOVE it now, I wish I could find something I enjoyed as much. Is there room for one more in the dork forest? LOL
Oh Honey this is so sweet. I had no idea how you got started. It sounds like you have found a wonderful group of friends. And the fact that you love what you are doing is just an added bonus. I envy you.
I have quite a bit of interest in this topic but I don't want to ask too many questions right now because I am sure you will talk about it in future posts. Do you have many of the old guns and rifles from that period?
Honeyhush this is SO great! My dad is a huge Civil War buff so I would love to see a reenactment sometime. What is it like wearing the costumes? Do you miss the internet and phones and electricity when you are doing these reenactments?? I'm like Anya– I love my creature comforts– but something like this would be so exciting. Kinda like living in Laura Ingalls Wilder's time– you probably get accustomed to the surroundings and make due with what you have.
I am definitely interested in hearing more– please keep filling us in on how these work
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I love the story about the drum! It is really great to be able to know your family's history. Re-enacting is all about honoring our ancestors. That's why it is much more than a hobby.
There is always room for more, in the Dork Forest LOL! There are groups all over the world. Anyone interested should google to see if there is a group near them. I was surprised to know that there are actually people re-enacting the American Civil War in other countries. I would love to go to Ireland someday and see how they do an event.
My daddy is a gunsmith and has always specialized in KY long rifles. That man can take a piece of wood & a piece of metal & make a beautiful gun. He made a nice little black powder pistol for me last year & just last week my husband bought me a tiny 41 Derringer that will fit in my boot. A lady never knows when she'll have to defend herself from one of those darn Yankees! LOL! My husband has a couple of reproduction muskets he uses for events, but we do own one original, from that time. It was a gift from my daddy. It humbles me to know that a soldier carried that gun so long ago & if it could talk, the tales it could tell.
My husband's sdie of the family is from Indiana. He has an extensive family history done by a relative. Lots of Civil War-era relatives fought for the Union. My kids are Yankees through and through.
Besides my brother's in-laws from GA, I have a sister who married into a Mississippi family. She has quite a few pieces of antebellum furniture including a little 'sofa' meant to accomodate a hoop skirt. The 4-poster bed and the matching stackable dresser (which stack too high for her home's ceilings) is gorgeous. Coincidentally, she lives near Valley Forge, with a stream running throught the backyard that Washington's army followed to the winter camp. Lots of history in her everyday life.
Do you make your own clothes for the re-enactment or do you get the vintage stuff?
Is a Kentucky long rifle also called a Pennsylvania long rifle?
I love the way you refer to it as the "dork forest" – I know I will fit right in.
It is fascinating the way we can "touch history" a bit by reenacting it or even by preserving and cherishng items from long ago. The sofa meant to accomodate a hoop skirt is wild.
I will tag along on the trip to Ireland for sure.
I could probably give up my creature comforts for a short period. I am not wild about guns. I think it is just my lack of experience with them. I stay back at camp and tidy up and cook up a great meal though.
This is fascinating. I've always found the Civil War really interesting. I actually have an ancestor that was killed at Shiloh; supposedly he was only 17. He was my maternal grandfather's uncle.
I'm not sure if I could "rough it" the way that you do for these reenactments; I love my creature comforts too much! But it would be fun to hang out for a day and watch the proceedings. It sounds like a great hobby!
Aren't you glad you went over to the dork side? Dorks know how to have the most fun. I have never done this or known anyone who did. But, I have run into them at the games stores that sell pewters figures. It always sounded like a good time. I enjoyed your article, you're funny. I am looking forward to hearing more. I had no idea they would re-enact the Civil War in other countries. I also would like to know more about the costumes.
I always choke up whenever I hear taps being played.
A KY a PA long rifle are not the same guns. They both shoot black powder though. What their differences are, I have no idea LOL! I just asked my husband and he said I would have to look @ a PA long rifle to know, but it isn't the same. He said my daddy would holler sacrelige if I even suggested such a thing! No disrespect to any Pennsylvanians. I'm sure y'all make a fine rifle, but it's just not the same as a KY long rifle. LOL.
I didn't think I would be able to rough it either, but now it's a part of life. The hardest part is the extreme temperatures. Too hot or too cold and I'm wishing for the AC or the heater. It's actually nice not worrying about make-up or hair for a few days. You know you're comfortable in your surroundings, when you can doze off in a port a potty. I actually did this 1 morning. I had just woke up & made my way to the blue room & the next thing I knew, 1 of my friends was waking me up again. I had fallen asleep right in there! LOL! No one who knew me before would ever think of me as a roughing it girl or one that felt @ home in a port a potty, but I love it so much now that it doesn't seem like I sacrifice a thing.
Honeyhush, this is great!
I recently lived for 2 years in KY… SE region, not too far from the TN state line….SMALL town…and now I'm back in FL! We must have passed each other.
I'm a huge history buff (always have been) but have had more of an interest in the Revolutionary War period. No war reenactments, but spent summers in southeastern PA as a teenager working in restored 18th century homes as a guide/day-in-the-life reenacter…yes, in full period costume. It was a blast!
I too wish I could find something that a large group of people can enjoy together and is kind of a welcoming group (dorky or not). My sister and BIL are avid hot air balloonists in NM and have a great time with friends and meet people from all over the world.
Star Wars convention, here I come!
Cella, I'm just tickled to death we found re-enacting before my husband did get me into the Star Wars conventions. He is a big Star Wars fan and close to being a Trekkie, as well. He could have really dorked me out and had me going to all kinds of conventions LOL!
Didn't you just love your guide job? When I was in college, I worked Summers as a tourguide in a 32 room historical mansion. I believe that has been my all time favorite job.
I'm off to a 5th KY meeting now. My next article should be up soon. I really love talking to all of y'all and hope to get time to know all y'all better!
I don't think I'd feel comfortable enough (or worthy enough to do it justice) to do the reenactment myself, but I love going to things like that. And I love Gettysburg! We used to go all the time, the rest of the family would be running to Hershey's Amusement Park and I'd be dragging my husband to Gettysburg. I love surrounding myself and immersing myself into that time period. Visiting the battlefields, the farms, the tiny homes. I just loved it all. Good for you, Honeyhush, I think that's great!
Lily,
Have you ever seen the cahnging of the guard at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier? If you get teary-eyed hearing taps, you'll weep seeing that. In 95 degree heat and very humid, I was covered with chills. It's very moving. Actually every part of Arlington Cemetary is very moving.
I must be a VERY hard worker- my apron is usually covered in 10 minutes. Sounds like a fun group! I dont think I would fare as well as you without modern conveniences