Written by Honeyhush
If my first article had been titled “Why I Entered the Dork Forest”, my second one should be “Why I Never Left the Dork Forest”. In a word, people. I love my fellow re-enactors. It truly is a family community. My group is the 5th Kentucky Infantry CSA and my husband & I are a part of Company E. The companies are divided up in regions of the state. Our company is out of Morehead, Ky. We are a close knit company and do many activities together when there isn’t an event. If you are looking for a group to join, make sure it is a “main stream” group. Otherwise, you will be dressing like a man and sleeping on the ground, under the stars. That’s not my idea of fun.
There are three women in my company that have become my best friends. If you continue reading my articles you are bound to hear more about these characters. MissyK is the ideal of Southern hospitality. She is the best hearted and one of the most unselfish women I have ever met. She wants every body to have their bellies full & a place to sit down. As long as this is accomplished, she’s pretty easy going. Angie is her sister and she doesn’t care if anybody eats! She is the sweetest thing and never fails to make me laugh. Then there is MissyB. Now MissyB is not fussing folks, she is “expressing herself”. She likes to express herself and I’m right in there with her, fussing, um I mean “expressing” myself. The four of us make a great team.
MissyK usually wakes up first and gets the coffee going. The rest of us get up soon after and after a few minutes of “wake up” time, we set to work. We have a company of men to feed! The four of us cook a huge breakfast over an open fire. A normal breakfast on a Saturday is 3lbs of sausage, 5lbs of bacon, 3 dozen scrambled eggs, hash browns, biscuits and gravy. Cooking biscuits in a dutch oven is an art and sometimes we don’t even burn the bottoms! Actually, biscuits baked in a dutch oven are delicious. Everything tastes better when it’s cooked & eaten outside. Leftovers are unheard of because MissyK can always wrangle up enough hungry souls to come eat at her fly.
Then there is the mess to clean up. We have to get a man to go get some water. At events, there is usually a main water source for everyone. We heat the water over the fire and wash and dry all those dishes, by hand. We eat with authentic tableware, so no paper plates for this bunch. We also have huge iron skillets to clean and season. We have a saying that “you can tell how hard someone works by how dirty their apron is.” Let me tell y’all, that isn’t necessarily so. One wrong move with an iron skillet and you can ruin a clean apron. I know this from experience.
I said re-enacting was fun, didn’t I? All this cooking and washing dishes doesn’t make it sound like much fun, but if you are with the right people it doesn’t matter what you are doing. My friends and I have a great time. We laugh most of the time we’re working and it gets done quickly. Then, it’s time to get dressed up pretty and “go to town”. There are always sutlers at these events. During the Civil War, sutlers traveled with the armies to sell the men things they needed. Now sutlers come to events to sell re-enactors things we need or in most cases, just want. There is usually a tea or social for us to attend, before the big battle. In the coming weeks, I’ll be writing more about all these activities. There is a lot going on for women to do in re-enacting besides the cooking. Sometimes we even get to shoot a few Yankees! Pictured are my friends and I loaded for bear @ a recent event. We’ve added a new woman this year, her name is Jessica. It’s yet to be seen just how dirty she gets her apron but she’s a sweet girl and fits right in, with us.









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11 Responses to WHY I NEVER LEFT THE DORK FOREST
How many people are in your company? Do you have any idea how many people participate in this hobby across they United States?
When I look at the picture posted here, it really makes me feel like I am actually looking at woment that are living in that time period.
I love the picture! My husband is a real Civil War buff. We have been to Gettysburg and Antietam. My ancestors fought around Lookout Mountain (On the losing team
). I am afraid I would be a disgrace to my ancestors. My idea of roughing it is when the power goes out for more than 30min. I could have used your skills when the hurricanes came through a few years ago.
Sounds like you have a great time.
There are close to 150 members in the 5th KY. We have close to 40 members in Company E, but only about half of us re-enact on a regular basis together. The rest may only make 2 or 3 events a year. Us die hards do about 16 a year!
OMGoodness! My husband & I were living in Okeechobee, FL a few years ago when the eye of 3 hurricanes came through in only about a 6 week period. We volunteered for Emergncy Management during that time. It was horrible! No, electric, phone, or water for weeks! I can do a few days, but weeks on end & I'm getting cranky! Last winter, KY had a bad ice storm & we lost power and all we had to do was pull out the Civil War gear. We were all set. Us & the area Amish LOL, we were prepared!
Ugh! I'll be thinking of you while I am "roughing it" camping this weekend (unless it rains again, LOL!)
And that my friends is my sister/friend Ole Honeyhush………………I would love to see and or even participate in an re-enactment.It sounds like getting back to basics and sense. The pictures are awsome.I am looking forward to more stories my dear. Love Ya, Lulu
I definately can see why have a close group of friends would make all the difference.
The Missys', etc. sound like a hoot!
Although doing it "authentic" might make things a bit harder and more time-consuming, I can see how it is critical to making the experience as special and rewarding as it is.
Can't wait to see more of your writing. I have come to really look forward to this feature. And I am a Yankee!
How is it that you can make perfect biscuits in a dutch oven over a
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fire and I mess up the kind in a can in my regular oven?? Wow! This
is all so fascinating- thank you again, Honeyhush, for sharing!! It
sounds like you have some wonderful people that make even doing dishes
bearable, so that is a huge plus
I appreciate every one’s comments and enthusiasm for my articles, even
y’all Yankees (hi LuLu!) This hobby is so much fun that I just love
talking about it and I’m grateful that there are people who want to
read about it. We have to stay as close to authentic as possible, not
only to make our own experience more fulfilling but to also make the
experience better for the spectators who visit our camps.
The working part of it is fun when done, w/ friends, but tell my aching
shoulder that. Me and my girls had to tear down 8 tents last Sunday
& my shoulder is screaming that I’m too old to be doing this stuff!
LOL! BTW, our biscuits did turn out perfect this past weekend and so
did the desert we baked Saturday night. We cheated & used Pillsbury
crescent rolls, a layer of a mixture of cream cheese & sugar,
topped w/ another layer of crescent rolls, covered w/ cinnamon &
butter. Baked all that in a dutch oven and oooo weee it was good enough
to make you slap your mama! LOL!
I did not attend the ball Saturday night, due to some other things
going on in camp and the fact that I was really too tired, but next
week I’m going to write about the teas, balls and socials. They are a
lot of fun, at least I enjoy them.
I was wondering why the women take down the tents? Any special reason for that?
Pam, we wonder the same thing! LOL! Usually one of the guys will come
around w/ a stake puller & pull up all the stakes, but we do the
rest of it. However, the guys load everything into the trucks &
trailers. It all pretty much balances out. Every one has their break
down jobs that they do and it all gets done. I’m going to confess
something though. Rarely do we get through a set up or a break down w/
out a husband & wife team fussing w/ each other because one thinks
that they are working harder than the other. My husband was 1 of the
worst for this. Thinking he worked harder than me, until this past
weekend when he really paid attention and saw that while he was loading
the trailer he would have nothing to load if I hadn’t packed it up and
brought it to him. All that fussing & hard work is forgotten by the
time we all stop @ a restaurant on our way home. Over dinner, all we
can do is laugh and share the stories of the good times we had that
weekend. I know it sounds like too much work to be worth it, but the
fun and friendship really does make it all worthwhile.
I want some of those biscuits and gravy. I know what you mean about
how much better everything tastes outdoors! What a lot of work, but
you have managed to turn it into a really fun time with good friends.
Keep writing, honey. Can’t wait to read about the tea parties